To anyone who love to ignore and avoid.
Ignoring or avoiding is just running away from the fact.
This just means that you're not able to hold on to yourself firmly.
You choose to run away because you don't want to face the truth or reality.
Ignoring a person who likes you put an impact on that person.
There's always pros and cons for it.
However, not everyone thinks the same thing as you do.
You may think it's fine with you but doesn't mean it's fine for the other party.
If you ignore, definitely that person will get hurt.
AND THIS HURT LIKE SHIT!
The feeling is just like sprinkle salts on an unhealed wound.
You never know how hard it is for that person to move on.
You may say this is temporary, but what will happened to that person, you'll never know.
What will that person thinks, you'll never know either.
If you see that person get back their smile, don't be too relieved.
That person may be strong from the outside, but you'll never know that they shed tears in the middle of the night to put themselves to sleep.
You think the way you act is actually helping them but in fact you're torturing them more.
If you choose to ignore that person, be sure that you are ready to lose a friendship.
Are you willing to sacrifice your friendship with that person?
If you know the answer, but you choose not to ignore, things will definitely turn out the other way.
That person will of course continue liking you.
Be patient with that person.
Treat that person like you always do.
Such person actually just need time to overcome it.
Explain to that person nicely why things can't turn out to be what they wanted but don't confuse them.
Make them understands and slowly, with time they will somehow adapt to it.
It may take days or weeks or months or even years, but for sure they will adapt to it someday.
At least at the end, you got to get to know that person very well and they'll be the best person to know you well.
No one can force you which route to choose.
It all depends on you.
It's either you want to make it the fast and hard way or slow and soft way.
You need to bare the consequences since you're the cause of it.
Don't feel disgust when you are loved by someone you don't wish to because, this is a sign that you're worth loving for.
Appreciate their feelings and thanks them for it.