Friday, March 23, 2012

结婚誓词

"我xxx愿以你xxx为我合法妻子/丈夫,无论富贵贫穷,快乐悲伤,健康疾病都愿意一生一世爱你,守护你,终生不渝。"


结婚誓词,如果只是循例读出来是没有意义的,一定要实践出来。年轻时又漂亮又健康,当然爱。但当对方年纪渐大,又老又有皱纹,越来越多病痛,甚至眼看对方老死,难道这样就不爱了吗?既然将来不会离弃对方,现在都应该一样。如果因为对方有病就不爱,就不是真正的爱。没人知道生命的长短,所以结婚誓词里面都没说要保证白头到老,但要保证无论健康疾病都要在一起。

Well said... Even though I've listened to many different vows before but for this time, and at this moment, I finally understand its meaning.

There's one question on my mind.
How many couples are able to follow such vows?
If everyone does so, we won't see any divorce, am I right?

最重要是把握现在 =)

Thursday, March 22, 2012

How I wish to be stronger and someone like YK.
Not everyone can be like him. It takes a whole lot of practice to do so.
Tons of patience together with mature thinking.
Smile, even though you're badly treated.
No grudge even though you're being accused.
Other people's sake is your first priority.
It's not easy to be such person, but be thankful if you meet such person is your life.
They're the one who can teach you what is life.

期望

每个人对生命都有不同的期望。有些是为了自己,有些是为了满足别人。但从来没有人能保证这些期望几时可以达成。如果期望真的无法达成,是否应该坚持下去呢?期望能够达成的时候,真的很开心,即使只是一个很细小的期望,当它能够落实时,人生马上就像重燃希望。不过期望有时候其实都很虚无飘渺,但可以说是我们的精神支柱,就好像空气一样,我们的身体要靠空气才可以生存,而我们的心就要有期望,才有力气好好生活。

-On call 36 小时-

的确说得好,但有多少个人能够做得到呢?

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Don't ignore people that loves you



I figured out why there are hearts broken on earth,
it's because when someone likes someone else,
the someone else doesn't like someone back. 
And then finally when someone else likes someone, someone has turned his back and gone for another someone else! 

 So people...there is this sort of "advice" 
 look...it's really nice loving someone, 
 but NEVER ignore the person that LOVES YOU! 
 because you don't get anything by loving someone else, 
 but receiving love is one of th greatest things on earth. 
 Never ignore or make fun of the person that loves you... 
Because you will make yourself not worth loving, and not worth living for.

Friday, March 16, 2012

How nice it is to have friends around you all time. They are the rainbow in your life. Sometimes you got too used with them around that you have forgotten yourself that you need to be independent.


A change in character, attitude or behaviour of a friend became the hot topic among the rest. As day goes by, you feel that you no longer know this person like how you normally know. 

Sometimes you hold a high risk in being too close with other people. You never know one day you might got betrayed, you never know one day they might just leave you and you never know that you were actually back stabbed all the time. 

Fears arise when one day your friend treat you abnormally. This is when you start to wonder and worried what have you done until the extend that you were being treated differently. The worst scenario of all is how two close friends became strangers.

Lesson to be learnt

The higher the expectation, the greater the disappointments.

So, be tough and tell yourself, 'It's gonna be alright!'

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Promises mean everything
but once they are broken
sorry means nothing.

How would you react after facing such situation?

And standing in between two sides, which one would you choose? 

Friend? Or the one dearly to you?

Monday, March 12, 2012

What are words

I've known this guy, Chris Medina last year but I didn't bother much to listen to song he sang. But I know the life he's been through and it's rather sad. Too bad that he didn't won the competition but I know he got loads of supports.

Can't control myself after watching the first clip and listening to the song.

First clip - To get to know the story


Second clip - What are words.



Anywhere you are, I am near
Anywhere you go, I'll be there
Anytime you whisper my name, you'll see
How every single promise I keep
Cuz what kind of guy would I be
If I was to leave when you need me most

What are words
If you really don't mean them
When you say them
What are words
If they're only for good times
Then they don't
When it's love
Yeah, you say them out loud
Those words, They never go away
They live on, even when we're gone

And I know an angel was sent just for me
And I know I'm meant to be where I am
And I'm gonna be
Standing right beside her tonight
And I'm gonna be by your side
I would never leave when she needs me most

What are words
If you really don't mean them
When you say them
What are words
If they're only for good times
Then they don't
When it's love
Yeah, you say them out loud
Those words, They never go away
They live on, even when we're gone

Anywhere you are, I am near
Anywhere you go, I'll be there
And I'm gonna be here forever more
Every single promise I keep
Cuz what kind of guy would I be
If I was to leave when you need me most

I'm forever keeping my angel close